Pleasure in the Time of Nationalism

There are a lot of people who don’t want us to talk about this topic: Sexual consent and sexual pleasure. Not only consent and pleasure, but sexual consent and sexual pleasure and their relationship to social justice. Because we are, as intellectuals …

Pleasure Activist

A partner who values your sexual pleasure would welcome helpful instructions! Communicating also means letting our partners know when things feel good! This can be with verbal acknowledgement (“Oh, that feels nice.” “Please, don’t stop”, “Yes!”)

6 Pleasure Principles for Sexual Satisfaction

It’s a sad reality for me to face, but each day I am met with emails from women who readily admit that they aren’t satisfied in their sex lives. Many place blame on their lack of sexual experience; others shift the responsibility on a partner who doesn …

The Pleasure In Withholding Orgasm

And then I was welcome to have as many as I wanted. This was some of the best sex and truly one of the most memorable orgasms of my life. There is incredible pleasure in withholding orgasm and waiting. It’s a clever use of the Erotic Equation: Obstacles …